When we are born, our parents are EVERYTHING we have in this world.
They are someone we turn to for support, guidance, and safety. They are someone we look up to tell us the rules of this mystery we are born into.
The truth is we are all human and we all make mistakes. However, to a child’s mind its parents are something A LOT more than just a human.
They are its creators, its caretakers, its guardians, and they’ve lived here before it was even born. Our mother and father are our goddess and god when we are young. They are the only thing we are familiar with in the midst of this vast unknown.
That’s the reason why what parents do and how they behave becomes a crucial part of their children’s psyche.
They are an example mold for our early consciousness, something to look from when it develops our character.
The way we talk to our children becomes their inner voice!
Our brain has a lot more neural connections when we are young. It absorbs almost everything that happens around us with a purpose to better adapt in its surroundings.
As we grow up it holds on only to the most used neural connections and it gets rid of everything that we don’t commonly use.
Our mother’s and father’s voice is something that gets integrated deeply into our psyche, it becomes our inner voice.
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Our children absorb every single word we say and all our deeds have an influence on their adulthood. Their brains are developing, and they have excess synapses at a rate of about 15,000 synapses a neuron which is two times more than the brains of adults.
The way parents talk to their children is the way the children talk to themselves. The way parents behave to their children affects the way they see themselves, and if the parents show anger and criticism, the child will be angry and hard on itself.
The way we treat ourselves affects our self-confidence and our approach to our own mistakes.
Due to all this, we need to be extra patient with our children. Being a parent is the most difficult, but most beautiful jobs in life, and it is your responsibility to teach your children to be better people and love themselves and the world around them.
The most important thing is to show them, love. Then, remember that they will make mistakes since they are children, so even though you try to scold them, they must feel loved and appreciated. When you talk to them, you should be warmhearted and kind.
Also, make sure the expression of love is obvious, as they cannot always notice the love between the parents.
Here are five phrases that you should never say to your child:
- “Big boys/girls are never afraid!”
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